Your Friends & Neighbors (1998) poster
1998 · drama · dark comedy · relationship

Your Friends & Neighbors

Directed by Neil LaBute1h 47m1998
ElsewhereIMDb6.39kRT76%Metacritic70TMDB5.883
  • sombre
  • brisk
  • intense
  • bleak
  • cold
  • intimate
Movie DNA

Sombre, kinetic, measured drama / dark comedy, grounded in texture. Nihilistic, intimate, cold, hand-scored across twelve axes of taste.

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Restless and unhappy, two couples get caught up in infidelity and deception. Barry is a sullen businessman married to Mary, a writer who is unsatisfied with their relationship. Mary begins an affair with Jerry, a smug theater professor and husband of her friend, Terri, who is also a writer. Adding to the adulterous mix are Cary, a callous doctor, and Cheri, an art-gallery assistant.

Our read · Your Friends & Neighbors (1998) reads as a sombre, kinetic, grounded drama · dark comedy · relationship entry — measured in intensity, intimate in scope, cold in temperature, nihilistic in outlook. Hand-scored on twelve axes of taste — mood, pacing, weirdness, hope, stakes, humour, reality, density, warmth, auteur, intensity, and era — with a derived palette drawn from its dominant cinematography.

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You want Neil LaBute's ice-cold infidelity chamber piece about awful people confessing.

ends unsettlingit leaves you shakensteady all the waygrips by minute 8attention 4/5earns its length
Date nightWith friendsSoloWith parentsKids around
Heads-upexplicit sexnuditycringe humiliation

Skip it tonightSkip if blunt sex talk, emotional cruelty, or relationship cringe will make you miserable.

DNA · twelve axes

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Each axis is hand-scored — not derived from votes or genre averages. The marker shows where this film sits; the gradient fill uses the film's own cinematography palette.

Mood · HeavyCosy
Pacing · Slow-burnKinetic
Intensity · GentleExtreme
Weirdness · ConventionalSurreal
Hope · NihilisticRedemptive
Stakes · IntimateEpic
Humour · NoneBroad
Reality · GroundedFantastical
Density · SparseTwisty
Warmth · ColdTender
Auteur · TransparentSignature
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