Holding the Man
- sombre
- intense
- tender
Sombre, steady, measured drama / coming-of-age, grounded in texture. Ambivalent, intimate, tender.
How every film is hand-scored →Tim and John fell in love while teenagers at their all-boys high school. John was captain of the football team, Tim an aspiring actor playing a minor part in Romeo and Juliet. Their romance endured for 15 years in the face of everything life threw at it – the separations, the discrimination, the temptations, the jealousies and the losses – until the only problem that love can't solve tried to destroy them.
Our read · Holding the Man (2015) reads as a sombre, steady, grounded drama · coming-of-age · sports entry — measured in intensity, intimate in scope, tender in temperature, ambivalent in outlook.
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The shape of Holding the Man
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